I live in Canada. I wouldnt order a vehicle with it.
I've driven vehicles with heated steering wheels before, and my current vehicle has heated seats. They are features I can take or leave. I won't be buying new enough cars in the future to have these features and I honestly will not miss it.
I miss daily driving my gutted car, which I drove in the middle of winter too even when it was -40. no heated seats or steering wheel there and I loved driving that more than my current daily.
Heated steering wheel, heated seats, and cooled seats will always be staples in any vehicle I own as a DD.